What does keeping a relationship out of view actually cost?

The cost is asymmetric information. The more of the bond that stays below the line, the further two accounts of the same event drift apart, and by the time a misunderstanding surfaces it is rarely small. Stating the assumed parts one by one is the only remedy.

Lord of the 7th in the 12th

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Part of a close relationship stays off the table, and misunderstanding sits in what was never said. Ask on the day a doubt appears.

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The seventh house lord in the twelfth is a permanent condition of the birth chart. The twelfth governs seclusion, confinement, hidden loss and matters kept out of view, and partnership placed there conducts a real share of its business off the public record: private undertakings, ties that are awkward to state, disagreements that surface only in solitude. This does not make the bond unreal; it puts its centre of gravity below the visible line, so what is unsaid has to be moved deliberately into the open.

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What does keeping a relationship out of view actually cost?: The cost is asymmetric information. The more of the bond that stays below the line, the further two accounts of the same event drift apart, and by the time a misunderstanding surfaces it is rarely small. Stating the assumed parts one by one is the only remedy.

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