Lord of the 7th in the 11th
Relationships grow out of the wider circle and shared aims, so friendship comes first. For anything ambitious, list who could work on it with you.
In detail
The seventh house lord in the eleventh is present from birth. The eleventh governs friends, allies and what one hopes for; the seventh brings marriage, partnership and open dealing into that field. The exclusive bond is differentiated out of the group rather than formed against it, so the shared circle and the shared aim come first, and the pairing holds while both parties remain inside the same network and the same ambition. When the eleventh's lord sits in the seventh, a hope depends instead on one particular person.
FAQ
- Why does friendship come before intimacy in this arrangement?
- Because the field the partnership occupies is the circle of allies and shared aims. Most pairings differentiate out of a group that already exists, and skipping that stage leaves the exclusive bond with nothing underneath it.