Seventh Lord in the First House
A partner rewrites how you turn out, so choosing one is close to choosing which way you grow. Write down the two or three things you will not concede before committing, not halfway through.
In detail
The seventh lord in the first brings the ruler of marriage, partnership and open opponents back into the house of the body and the self, fixed at birth and unchanging. Relationship therefore acts directly on the person: a spouse participates in how the self is formed, the other party's condition is reflected in one's own, and the standards used to choose a partner amount to a plan for oneself. Unlike the seventh lord staying in its own house, this arrangement moves the weight of the other onto your side.
FAQ
- Why does every relationship seem to change who I am?
- With the seventh house's ruler in the first, the results of partnership are charged to the self. Under this arrangement a partner's habits, standards and condition show up in the native directly, which is why the criteria for choosing one are worth writing down in advance.